Tips to Pour the Gravy and Pass the Stuffing and Potatoes

What a day-before-Thanksgiving travel day it is today. The constant rain is set to become the first snow of the season.

The nice thing about Thanksgiving is that it is all about jumping off the merry-go-round of our busy schedules and spending time with family and friends.

A spread of food is the anchor for enjoying a relaxing meal.

Are you hosting the holiday? Thanksgiving has  turkey hotlines where there are people who will answer your cooking questions for the turkey who is the star of the show.

The side dishes are where holiday menus reflect the family tastes. Nuts in the stuffing? Sweet potatoes or mashed? Everyone knows what they like when it comes to holiday meals..

Many of the herbs in the garden like thyme and sage are still around before the first hard frost. These herbs are terrific in Thanksgiving foods like gravy and stuffing.

Check out my posts over at Parade’s new Community Table food section.

Get ideas for homemade gravy, stuffing the way everyone likes it, and how to make super-creamy mashed potatoes. First up is the easy-to-make homemade gravy that will be in your gravy boat with a few steps.

Can’t get everyone to agree on a stuffing recipe? Take a look at my post for tips on how to stage a make-your-own stuffing for the holiday table.

You can also see my post for how we accidentally discovered how to make the creamiest mashed potatoes. Sometimes you stumble across ideas without planning for them!

Happy Thanksgiving!

What to Do with All That Halloween Candy!

Our trick-or-treaters did their candy route in record time and pulled in quite a haul. You could smell the sugar wafting from their bags as they ran by.

As the weather cools, the hydrangea bushes have dried flower heads which are visually interesting. They mix with some plantings that are at their most colorful display when the season starts to usher in cooler weather.

This bush has long and graceful green branches in the summer. Right now it is studded with bright purple berries. It’s a welcome sight come fall.

But it’s  a group of hydrangea that are doing something different this season. They still have fresh blossoms.

These pale-pink blossoms have come out just recently and are fluffy pink clusters right by the fence.

There are a few new blossoms of purple too. The leaves on the purple hydrangea have darkened to an eggplant sort of color as they normally do at this time of year. Yet, there are new blue-lavender blooms.

This part of one of the bushes, poking right through the fence, has a new flower and a blossom that appeared recently. Maybe it’s like when kids do something nice to surprise you.  Don’t ask why. Just enjoy!

Now, we’re fresh from Halloween with the holidays around the bend. Do you have bowls of candy that you’re avoiding dipping your hands in?

Head on over to the new Food section of Parade for some ideas for your Halloween candy.



After the Storm

Two years ago today we were clobbered with Hurricane Sandy. Some were devastated and some escaped without any damage.

Slowly the stories were being shared of everyone’s experience. We lost power for over a week yet we were able to use our grill outside for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Making dinner inside, with a ton of candles lit around the kitchen, was a race against the darkness as dusk arrived each evening.

This blog began weeks before Hurricane Sandy and this post from early on explains the experience.

Everyone welcomed the trick-or-treaters in their costumes that year as something light and happy to think about for a change.

Be sure and check out my latest post for Parade about Halloween treats and what to do with leftovers.

Have fun and boo!

September Slides into View

It’s hotter today, on the first of September, than it was on any given day in the month of August. Go figure.

This summer we took our annual cruise up the East River for bird watching with the New York City Audubon. It was a beautiful evening and we watched the sun set behind the UN building.

Someone also turned another year older with a dinner of juicy hamburgers and hot dogs at the request of the birthday boy!

He also wanted his aioli for dipping French fries which he calls “French fry dipping sauce.” Oh, and an ice cream cake that combines two of his favorite things!

The mint in the garden exploded this year so we put it to use in salads, desserts and drinks.

The guys overheard a conversation about turning cocktails into mocktails by removing the booze from a drink.

It’s a way for everyone to enjoy the flavors of cocktails with a non-alcohol version for the non-drinkers and the kids.

The word mocktail alone was a source of a lot of laughter.

Start by making a simple syrup. Mix equal parts sugar to water.

The sugar dissolves and melts into the water so there are no sugar crystals floating around in the drinks. Allow to cool before using.

You can mix combinations of fruits and juices. Play with mixing the juices with some carbonation like seltzer or ginger ale. We mix organic juices with a French Berry Lemonade from Trader Joe’s available in the summer months.

The guys experimented with learning how to muddle mint leaves in the bottom of a glass to make mocktails.  Pressing down on the leaves and lightly bruising them releases some of the essential oils.

This more concentrated mint flavor brightens a cold drink. You can read more about muddling mint leaves at seriouseats here.

Cheers to summer 2014! Take a look at my PARADE post that helps you turn leftover wine into dessert.

This is brought to you by the wonderful Alice Medrich and it is a dessert you must try before summer slips away!




Slow Down Summer!

It goes faster and faster every year. When school ends we have great plans of what we’re going to do “all summer long.” Then we fall into the routine of camp and these guys get a reality check of how quickly six weeks can slip away.

But, they’re having fun and that’s what’s important. Summer memories shape a childhood. They love to have “Make Your Own Pizza Night” and the pizza they considered to be for the adults has become the one that they are asking for when the grill is fired up when it’s time for dinner.

The guys love the traditional pizza with a sweet marinara sauce and melted mozzarella cheese on top. They pluck some fresh basil leaves from the garden and we scatter them on top at the end of the cooking time. Pizza on the grill has a smoky flavor that adds to the whole pizza experience.

Now the guys are interested in the pizza that had been previously placed in the category of “for the adults.” This pizza uses the same pizza dough slicked with olive oil and stretched into a somewhat circular shape and placed on the hot grill grates.

This pizza gets the added flavor of onions that have slowly caramelized in some butter. They take on a golden brown color and a rich sweetness as the natural sugars caramelize in the pan.

We use a combination of cheeses from Trader Joe’s that includes Parmesan, Asiago, Fontina and Provolone cheeses. They melt consistently in the intense heat of the direct heat of the grill.

At the end of cooking time, instead of torn basil leaves we snip some thyme sprigs and add those to the pizza as a finishing touch.

The guys have come to enjoy the flavors of this “grown-up” white pizza.

Dinner outside on the patio, with some flowers from the garden in a Mason jar on the table, is what summer is all about for us.

The season goes so fast that we want to indulge in every moment we can. These next few weeks we want to hit everything on our summer checklist.

Catching fireflies, trips to the beach to feel the grainy sand underneath and take in the salty air, and swimming in the pool until it’s time to make dinner.

Herbinkitchen took a summer break after the June blogathon but my posts at PARADE continued. You can take a look at them in the link below.

Make the most of what is left of summer!

4th of July Juicy Burgers and a Red, White and Blue Dessert

Here come the flags and fireworks! The 4th of July, with orchestras playing and splashes of explosive fireworks, is arriving this week.

We like to do the traditional route of burgers and hot dogs on the grill. This year the menu will include a lemon cole slaw and a potato salad with shallots, vinegar and herbs.

We’ll make the trip to Trader Joe’s for their brioche hamburger buns because they make every burger better.

The guys like their hamburgers with cheese. We use a grill pan that fits on the grill grates and helps create a nice sear on the outside of the burger for a crunchy exterior.

The pan heats up on the grill grates and the burgers cook evenly. To give the burger flavor, we use Worcestershire and soy sauce like we do with our steaks.

We also make a panade which are bits od bread soaked in milk that get mixed in with the meat. This combination keeps the burgers moist and juicy.

What also  helps keep a burger moist? Water. Water in the form of steam.

People tend to press the burgers on the grill as they cook. All that does is press all the moisture out of the burgers. Place the burgers on a hot grill pan and don’t touch them.

Allow them to sit and develop a caramelized outer layer. Flip the burgers to get a crust on the other side. What needs to happen now is to finish cooking the interior of the burger, with the lid closed, to trap the heat and create an oven-like environment.

After the other side of the burger has a sear on it, pour some water on the super-hot grill pan. The water will immediately hiss and create a cloud of steam. Quickly close the grill top and trap that steam around the burgers.

If you are making cheeseburgers place the slices of cheese on top of the burgers before you add the water on the pan and close the lid.

A swim in the pool, some hamburgers, potato salad and cole slaw, followed by a red, white and blue dessert. The guys don’t believe they are eating cheese when they are served ricotta with honey swirled into the creamy cheese and topped with fruit.

They believe that a dessert can’t have cheese in it in any form.

For the 4th of July it will be slices of strawberries and blueberries that are just peaking on our blueberry bush with scoops of ricotta and mint leaves.

The blogathon for 2014 has come to an end. A post every day for the month of June. Cue the fireworks!



How Would You Like Your Eggs on Sunday Morning?

Sunday mornings with a newspaper and a cup of tea. Doesn’t get any better.

Now that the warm weather is here that means breakfast outside on the patio. As lovely as the morning breeze is, it can make reading the newspaper tricky.

The reason we love to use eggs in our kitchen is because they are the kind of food that can show up at breakfast, lunch or dinner in a variety of ways.

We can use them as hard-boiled eggs where we place them in a pot of cold water and slowly bring to a boil. Once the water is at a rapid roll of a boil the pot gets covered and removed from the heat.

After a stay of ten minutes the eggs come out of the water and are rinsed under cold water. When the top of the egg is cracked it breaks the seal between the egg and the shell.

The inside yolk can be scooped out and mixed with mayonnaise and a bit of Dijon mustard. They can get a dusting of paprika. The eggs always get a snip of chives from the garden.

The guys like fluffy scrambled eggs for breakfast. They will have bacon or Canadian bacon with the eggs as a weekend breakfast.

How do you get the fluffiest eggs possible that are light and flavorful? Keep it simple.

You want to start with good quality eggs from the market. How do you know if an egg is no longer good for cooking? Place the egg in a bowl of water with some salt. If it floats it’s edible — if it sinks — don’t use it.

Start with cracking your eggs on the surface of the counter. This is better than doing it on the rim of a bowl where some of the shell can recede into the egg. Add a splash of whole milk and a good pour of cream with salt and pepper.

Pull out your immersion blender and mix the eggs, milk and cream. This whips air into the eggs for fluffy scrambled eggs. Season with salt and pepper.

Melt a pat of unsalted butter in a pan. Working from the outside of the pan drag the eggs to the middle of the pan allowing the rest of the eggs to fill in the gaps.

Keep the eggs moving. When the eggs look like they are almost cooked through pull the pan from the heat. The heat from the pan will continue to finish cooking the eggs as you prepare to serve.

When the mood strikes, we’ll poach some eggs and make a Hollandaise sauce for Eggs Benedict. Perfectly poached eggs and Canadian bacon sitting on toasted English muffins with the silky sauce and chives.

Sometimes we make a batch of punch that everyone can enjoy with orange juice, cranberry juice, lemonade, ginger ale and mint.

Tomorrow is the last day of the blogathon!

Hot Off the Grill Pizza

Pizza on the grill. It’s a summer tradition for us. Slightly charred pizza dough and sweet tomato sauce with cheese melted on top.

We do different kinds of pizza. For those with maybe more grown-up taste we do a pizza with a blend of parmesan and fontina with caramelized onions and tiny thyme leaves.

That pizza, with a light salad, and glass of wine on the patio is a summer meal that satisfies.

Kids always want their tomato sauce and melted mozzarella with torn basil leaves scattered across the surface. Sometimes you just have to stick with the basics. Fair enough.

The important step in working with pizza dough is to have a floured surface to work on and a bit of olive oil to coat the dough to help stretch it out.

A well-oiled dough will stretch better and it will help prevent the dough from sticking to the grates of the grill. Create whatever shape you want. Round or oblong. You want to make sure the dough has a consistent thickness so that it cooks evenly.

When you pre-heat your grill you want to create a hot zone and a cool zone like we talked about some posts back. Stretch the dough and place it on the side with the direct flame.

As little bubbles of the dough appear, pinch them with your tongs. This maintains an even surface for what will be the bottom of the pizza when you flip it.

After flipping the dough, spread tomato sauce almost to the edge of the pizza and sprinkle with cheese. Move to the cool zone and cover with the lid of the grill.

The cool zone is important when working with pizza. The dough will cook rather quickly. Then, you want to trap the heat with the lid closed after moving the pizza to the part of the grill where there is no direct flame.

This will continue to melt the cheese on top of the pizza without burning the crust underneath.

To remove pizza from the grill place your cutting board at the edge of the grill grates and use your tongs to slide the pizza off the grill and onto the board. Slice into pieces and enjoy!

We keep pots of basil right next to the grill. This has two benefits. The basil is within reach when the pizza is done and we are ready to let some basil leaves melt into with the warm cheese.

From the perspective of the plant, the basil is very happy to sit next to the grill as it is an herb that particularly likes the warmth that radiates from the grill.

There are two more days of the blogathon for 2014! Thanks for reading and see you tomorrow.

5 Ideas for Vinaigrettes

One of the great pleasures of the summer season is dining outside. The meal is relaxing and who cares if anything drops on the floor. Well really, that’s for the dog to take care of inside and outside.

Don’t feed him from the table, but anything that drops to the floor, or flies from your fork from animated conversation, is a treat for our furry friend.

Now that you have the ratio of 3 to 1, oil to vinegar memorized here are some variations of the basic vinaigrette.


Stir in some Dijon mustard for a bit of a tang in the vinaigrette. Any version of mustard works. Use a regular Dijon mustard and try a whole grain mustard too. Each lends a different texture to the vinaigrette.

Roasted Garlic

Many people don’t like the taste of raw garlic in their vinaigrettes. Raw garlic can have a pungent flavor that some people find unappealing. As we said in another post, garlic takes on a completely different flavor when it is roasted. It is less assertive and has a sweetness to it.

We talked about roasting garlic before, but you’re not going to want to roast a whole head of garlic to use some of it in a vinaigrette. Place 1 or 2 cloves of garlic in a cold pan with the extra-virgin-olive-oil that you would use in the vinaigrette.

Slowly warm the oil. The garlic will infuse the olive oil. This will take about 2 minutes. Remove the garlic and allow the oil to cool. Then you are ready to finish making the vinaigrette.


Make a creamy vinaigrette by adding a splash of light cream or half and half. This creates a slightly rich vinaigrette with a milky flavor. This is a time when you would think about swapping out a dark balsamic vinegar for a white balsamic.

The taste combination is a little more of a blend that works and the color of the vinaigrette is a better visual presentation.


Shallots are good in a vinaigrette because they lend a mild onion taste to the ingredients. You don’t even have to be a master mincer with a knife.

Cut a shallot into a few chunky pieces and use the same method with the shallots as described above with the garlic. Heat the shallots in the oil and allow it to take on the taste of shallot in the background of the oil.


Snip them in your garden or pick them up at the farmers’ market. Add some thyme, tarragon or chives to the vinaigrette for an added freshness. Some basil or rosemary. Try different herbs and combinations of herbs. They will make your salad sing.

Today is the first official day of summer vacation. Let the fun begin!

School’s Out for Summer

Not much to share today since a second-grader and a sixth-grader have closed out their careers. The end of June is a whirlwind of activity, and wrapping things up and finishing projects. To celebrate, we are heading out to a favorite restaurant to have dinner.

We’ll pick up the discussion tomorrow where we left off about salads and vinaigrettes. Tonight we will order the favorite salad we get when we go to this place. It has briny olives, broccoli spears and tiny bits of fresh mozzarella. It feels like the place to be as we have marked other milestones at this restaurant. That’s what a restaurant can mean to you. It feels like another kitchen and table that makes you relax and enjoy a meal with family and friends.

There is a quote from an author that anyone dealing with school schedules, baseball practices, art classes and music lessons needs to remember in the roller coaster years of raising children.

“The days are long but the years are short.” -author Gretchen Rubin